Ellen K. Duffy

Ellen K. Duffy

Ellen Kay Duffy, daughter of James M. and Kathleen A. Kelly Duffy, was born February 2, 1964, at Sumner, Iowa. She was baptized and confirmed at Immaculate Conception Catholic Church in Sumner. She graduated from Sumner High School in 1982, and then attended Northeast Iowa Technical Institute and became a registered nurse.

Ellen worked in various positions during her twenty-five year nursing career in Sumner, Cedar Falls, and Waterloo. Ellen was active in the Breast Cancer Awareness Association and made trips to Washington, D.C. with the group lobbying for breast cancer research.

Following a lengthy illness, Ellen’s death occurred on Saturday, July 30, 2011, at the Cedar Valley Hospice Home in Waterloo. She was forty-seven years old and was a member of St. Edward’s Catholic Church in Waterloo. Ellen had an immense love for her niece and nephews, and very much loved her dog.

Ellen is survived by her parents, Jim and Kathleen Duffy of Sumner; two brothers, Patrick (Lisa) Duffy, also of Sumner, and Michael (Laura) Duffy of Eagan, Minnesota; four nephews; and one niece.

Funeral Mass will be held at 10:30 a.m., Wednesday, August 3, 2011, at Immaculate Conception Catholic Church Sumner, Iowa with Rev. Jim Brokman officiating. Interment will be at Mt. Calvary Cemetery, Sumner. Friends may call from 4:00 until 8:00 p.m., Tuesday, August 2, 2011, at Becker-Milnes Funeral Home in Sumner where there will be a Rosary recited at 4:00 p.m. and Scripture Service held at 7:30 p.m. on Tuesday. Friends may also call for one hour preceding Mass at the church on Wednesday.

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Carol Corcoran Healy on August 8, 2011 at 11:02 AM said:

I am so sorry to hear this news about Ellen. We all know she is in God's loving care. My prayers will continue for Ellen and all of you. David Harkins quote: “You can shed tears that she is gone, or you can smile because she has lived. You can close your eyes and pray that she'll come back, or you can open your eyes and see all she's left. Your heart can be empty because you can't see her, or you can be full of the love you shared. You can turn your back on tomorrow and live yesterday, or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday. You can remember her only that she is gone, or you can cherish her memory and let it live on. You can cry and close your mind, be empty and turn your back. Or you can do what she'd want: smile, open your eyes, love and go on.”

Anonymous on August 5, 2011 at 09:29 AM said:

Cathy (Toussaint) Coleman on August 4, 2011 at 06:30 AM said:

I am so sorry to hear of Ellen's passing. Seems like just yesterday we were in Junior High together, and were at your house laughing and talking. I ran into her a few months ago when I was home visiting my mother. She never let on how sick she was. She was still the same kind, sweet person I had known all through our school days together. You are all in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
Cathy (Toussaint) Coleman

Annie Volker on August 3, 2011 at 07:44 AM said:

Mr.and Mrs. Duffy, Pat, Mike (and families): I was in the class of 1982 with Ellen and want to extend my heartfelt sympathy to you. What I know for certain is that nothing beautiful in this world is ever lost. And nothing can separate us from those we love-- not even death. We keep our loved ones present each time we live and love each other well. Ellen's gentle ways, deep compassion, generosity, and kindness have given us countless examples of how to live-- how to keep her spirit with us. I am both mourning with you and celebrating a life well-lived.

Jerry and Boni Bishop on August 2, 2011 at 09:21 PM said:

Wow! What a tribute to Ellen. All that has been written here by so many. I knew Ellen through work at Covenant. We were also good friends of Mary and Leroy. There are many great memories we have of Ellen. She was always doing something thoughtful for others. Needlework, baking, sending cards, giving gifts, visiting people in the hospital, the list goes on. We are all better for having known her.

David and Reenie Baier on August 2, 2011 at 07:54 PM said:

We are so sorry to hear about Ellen. You are in our thoughts and prayers. May God bless and comfort you.

Jane Tucker on August 2, 2011 at 02:58 PM said:

My sympathy to Ellen's family. Not only was Ellen one of my students many years ago, but just a few years ago she was very helpful to me when we had a chance happening of being at the Cancer center the same day. Even though she was probably not feeling the best herself, she took time to talk to me and answer some questions I had. I will always remember her kindness.

Carolyn Weichers on August 2, 2011 at 01:00 PM said:

I knew Ellen through our orgaization... Iows Breast Cancer Edu-Action. But I really knew Ellen after her diagnosis. I was her Reach to Recovery contact. We had many phone calls and became good friends. I admired her courage and strength. We had moments on the phone of hope and despair but always smiled through it all. I visited her several times and know how she loved both of her dogs. I also know she loved her family. Please know that we all mourn with you in the passing of Ellen. She was a good person and touched many lives. You are in my prayers.

Peggy & Jeff on August 2, 2011 at 10:02 AM said:

My husband and I would like to convey our deepest sympathy to the family and friends of your beloved Ellen. We would like to share with you something that has brought us much comfort at a similar time in our lives. John 11:14-44 shares with us the experience of Jesus resurrecting Lazarus here on earth before the very eyes of those he loved. We can only imagine the tears of joy when we too are reunited with our dear loved ones. (John 5:28,29) Ellen will surely be missed by many of those who's lives she shared, remember the experiences you shared together and learn from them, hold them close to your heart and cherish them. May you find comfort from those who surround you at this very difficult time. Our sincere condolences to all of you.

Cindy Harris on August 2, 2011 at 08:09 AM said:

I am so sorry for the loss of Ellen. She is one of the most couragous people I know. I met Ellen at the Iowa Breast Cancer EduAction group and we traeled to Washington DC together. In the past few years she was not able to attend I reminded our congressmen that she was at home but still fighting our fight. She is the only person I know who had Hilary Clinton call her in the hospital after breaking her leg. Ellen was kind, thoughtful and so very brave. She wasn't a complainer and had every right to be. Her smile was wonderful and the love of her niece and nephews was always up front. I will miss her so. She is definitely a daughter to be proud of. My prayers are with her family but she is now a very bright light in heaven and if there is something up there needing done I am sure Ellen is right on it.

Marcia Dixon on August 2, 2011 at 07:30 AM said:

My heart hurts for the lose of Ellen. She fought the good fight. I worked with Ellen at Nurse on Call (Ask-A-Nurse) and loved having her as a friend. I think of her now surrounded by loved ones that have gone before and especially her dogs. I hope they had a special party in heaven for her she deserved it. Sorry I can't be there in person my heart goes out to the family she adored.

Maxine Kehret, Registered Dietitian on August 2, 2011 at 07:19 AM said:

I was saddened to read of the news about Ellen in the paper. I worked with her in a nursing home or hospital in the Waterloo/Cedar Falls area for a short time. I really enjoyed working with her. She was a really dedicated and loving nurse with her patients. She will be missed by many.. Maxine

Rich & Peggy Carlson on August 2, 2011 at 07:05 AM said:

We were saddened to hear of Ellen's passing. I worked with Ellen for several years at Nurse on Call. Not only was she a dedicated nurse but a dear friend. She was always interested in the lives of others & proud to share stories about her family, especially her nephews & niece. I admired her courage & strength in dealing with her health problems. She made an impact on many lives & was a source of inspiration to us all. My heart aches for the pain your family is going through. Ellen is at peace. Our thoughts & prayers are with your entire family.

Kathy Boeckmann on August 1, 2011 at 11:56 PM said:

My deepest sympathy to Ellen's family.I met Ellen at an Edu-Action Breast Cancer meeting. She was always up beat and never a complainer but a doer. I meet her before she was diagnosised with her breast cancer. It is a terrible cancer and Ellen worked hard at being an advocate to find a cure. She will be missed by so many people she touched in her short life. I pray it comforts you in knowing she touched so many lives and helped many in such a short time. I will not forget her and will remember her smile and positive attitude during even the toughest challenges in her life.

Gretchen (Gitch) Warkentin on August 1, 2011 at 06:57 PM said:

Mr. and Mrs. Duffey, Pat and Mike, Please accept my sympathy in the loss of your daughter and sister. From what I have heard and read, although her days on this earth were short, she made those days full and worthwhile. God's Blessings to you all.

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