John R. Milnes

 

John R. Milnes, the son of Earl B. and Nellie S. (Wiltsey) Milnes, was born February 5, 1920 in LucasCounty, near Chariton, Iowa.  He graduated from CharitonHigh School in 1937.  John attended IowaStateUniversity in Ames, Iowa and graduated from the College of Mortuary Science of St. Louis, Missouri.  After completing his funeral apprenticeship, John enlisted in the U.S. Army, attended Officer Candidate School and was commissioned as a Second Lieutenant.  He served as a Detachment Commander of the 7th StationHospital in North Africa and Italy during World War II.  Following his active duty discharge in 1945 he returned to Chariton.  John was united in marriage with Jane Carter on September 15, 1946 at the CharitonRiverValleyBaptistChurch by Rev. Leroy Sparks.  From 1946 until 1956 he was a funeral director with the Miley Funeral Home in Chariton.  Also during those years he served with the Iowa National Guard as Company Commander of Headquarters Company, 168th Division, 1st Battalion, located in Chariton.  In 1957, John and Jane purchased the Berg Funeral Home in Sumner, Iowa.  They and their four children became residents of Sumner in September of that year.  They later acquired funeral homes in Hawkeye and Fayette, Iowa.  They also operated an ambulance service for ten years.  In September of 1984, their business was purchased by Robert and Linda Becker.  John has been active in the Iowa Funeral Directors Association for over fifty years, serving as President of District #1, and on the State Education Committee, as well as various other committees.  Throughout the years, John presented mini-courses on “Death and Dying” to Juniors and Seniors of Sumner High School, as well as other schools and groups in the area.

                John’s death occurred Sunday, September 13, 2009 at his home in Sumner from complications of pneumonia.  He was eighty-nine years old.  John was a fifty year member of the UnitedMethodistChurch in Sumner and served in various church offices, including Administrative Council Board Chairman.  He was a fifty year member of the Thomas E. Woods American Legion Post #223 in Sumner.

 He was a fifty year member of the Rotary Club in Sumner, serving as president and on various committees, and he was presented with the Paul Harris Award.  John served on the Adult Advisory Board for Hawkeye Institute of Technology in Waterloo; the original board for the Hillcrest Home in Sumner; the original board of the Whitmire Swimming Pool, which opened to the public in 1960; he served as President of the Sumner Community School Board, completing nine years as a board member; he served on the Sumner City Council; he was Past President of the Community Club;

He served as the local Cub Master for the local Scout Troop and as District Chairman for the Wild River District of the Winnebago Council for Boy Scouts; John recently chaired “Project Reach”, established to raise funds for Sumner’s new Public Library and Aquatic Center; he was a longtime Board member of the First State Bank in Sumner and was currently serving as Vice President of the Community Memorial Hospital Foundation Committee.  In 2002, John was selected to be Iowan of the Day at the Iowa State Fair and in 2009 John and Jane were selected to be the “Honeymoon” couple for Sumner Days.

                John is survived by his wife, Jane, of Sumner, Iowa; four children, ten grandchildren; and six great grandchildren; John B. (Julia) Milnes of Rochester, Minnesota, Marshall (Jackie) Milnes and Kyle Milnes; Cal (Katy) Milnes of Dallas, Texas, Michelle (Dan) Chipera, Kyle and Collyn, Arthur (Leslie) Milnes, Joshua, and Mike (Krista) Milnes; Barb (Bill) Holt of Ames, Iowa, Erik, Kari (Dave) Weaver, Ildri Jane, and Kirstin (Khyle) Clute; and Dan (Brenda) Milnes of Vinton, Iowa, Burke, Hillary (Jason) Hunziker, Collyn and Jason Scott; one sister-in-law, Martha Milnes of Chariton, Iowa and many nieces and nephews.

                John was preceded in death by his parents; three brothers, Burke, Wiltsey, and Art Milnes; and two sisters, Hazel Milnes and Pauline Price.  

Funeral Services will be held at 11:00 a.m., Wednesday, September 16, 2009, at the United Methodist Church in Sumner with Rev. Vicki Reece and Rev. John Battern officiating. Friends may call from 4:00 p.m. until 8:00 p.m., Tuesday, September 15, 2009, at Becker-Milnes Funeral Home in Sumner and for one hour preceding services at the church on Wednesday. Interment will be in UnionMoundCemetery in Sumner.  Military Rites will be held by the Thomas E. Woods American Legion Post #223. Memorials may be made in his name and given to either the family or given to a memorial of the donor's choice.

 

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Thomas Minks on January 6, 2011 at 12:42 PM said:

John was a nice person and a good neighbor. He will be missed a lot by most of those who know him.

Kevin Mabon (Bahrain but formerly Sumner) on March 16, 2010 at 09:31 AM said:

Jane, my deepest sympathies. You picked a good man in John (and he in you!).

I still remember the time I was bicycling home in the rain, the bolt holding the handlebars and the front wheel together was loose so the front wheel was wobbly. He took me in and tightened the bolt so I could get home safely.

Not a big thing but that was the routine "act of kindness" that he did. A good man who will be missed.

Kevin Mabon

Ed Emerson on September 29, 2009 at 07:42 AM said:

Jane and family, My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. John was a kind and gentle man and it was my good fortune to have known him. He was an excellent balance and partner for my father who at some times could be a little harsh. Together they were a good team. Again, my thoughts and good memories and most of all my thanks for you and John at this time. Ed

Cris Milnes Stone on September 22, 2009 at 03:03 PM said:

I think our sister, Linda, may have said it best. Even though we didn't see UJ and AJ as often as we would have liked, it just felt better knowing they were "on the planet." His three brothers all died young and I know I am among many nieces and nephews who were able to get to know our fathers through his many stories. We miss him very much.

Linda Swarthout, niece on September 22, 2009 at 07:40 AM said:

Losing Uncle John leaves a huge empty space which is hard to describe. He is in the arms of the angels, where he belongs now.

Gene & Clare Thorne on September 20, 2009 at 03:57 PM said:

We only know John through his grandson Arthur Milnes who is married to our granddaughter Leslie (Kilgore) Milnes. She is a beloved granddaughter and her union with Art has been beautiful and loving to witness. He surely is a reflection of the goodness of John and we feel blessed to have him in our family. His son, Joshua, is the light of our life and is yet another example of the begets and the begets. Love goes on and we feel we received John's goodness through Arthur. God bless all of you.

Matthew Price on September 17, 2009 at 02:50 PM said:

Dear Jane and the many Milnes family members: I was so honored to be able to be at the moving and uplifting ceremony yesterday. Uncle John's moral compass, as was said, did indeed reach us younger generations, and it reached those of us who live further away. He will remain with me as a warm and gentle guiding spirit. I miss him already.

With love and sympathy,

Matthew

Larry & Jill Graening on September 17, 2009 at 01:41 PM said:

Jane and family, Our deepest sympathy to all of you on the death of John. Growing up in Sumner John's work and commitment to the community was always very evident. The travel stories of trips with my parents and other friends were always such fun to listen to. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Larry & Jill Lucas Graening

Joan Anderson on September 17, 2009 at 01:22 PM said:

Barb, Bill and family. I was so impressed to read all your dad was involved in throughout his lifetime. More than most of us. God bless you and his memory.

Joan

Barb and Bob Fleege on September 17, 2009 at 05:28 AM said:

I will say that I have known daughter Barb Holt over the past 3 years here in Ames, IA.... I am pleased to know her in two very special ways...one as a team member on a project with Mary Greeley Medical Center, and also a PEO sister...I can see where Barb was able to share the gifts she received from her father in the beautiful work she does at Hospice Homeward.... and also from seeing her as a Loving Sister!!!! Bob and I are so sorry for your loss...

John and Allyn Tock on September 16, 2009 at 09:21 PM said:

What a fine uncle John Milnes was to me. I enjoyed reading of all the civic activities he contributed to the city of Sumner. May others rise up to continue what he has done. Our sympathies and prayers to Aunt MJ, Bes, Cal, Barb and Dan.

Shelly and Aaron Lehmkuhl on September 16, 2009 at 07:31 PM said:

Dear Barb and family, What a wonderful life your father lead! He will be dearly missed by many. May you find comfort in the Lord and one another in the days to come! Memories will last a lifetime. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Truly, Shelly and Aaron

Dan Woods - Chicago, IL on September 15, 2009 at 09:16 PM said:

My deepest sympathy to John’s family. I will remember John as a pillar of the community and a dedicated contributor making Sumner what it is today. While John touched many lives, he touched mine too as a member of the Rotary Club. While I was embarking on a foreign exchange program, John provided a farewell to me that instilled me with confidence and encouragement in a manner that was gracious and calming. He will be greatly missed

Dianne Milnes Clothier on September 15, 2009 at 01:30 PM said:

Uncle John, oh how we will miss you. The stories about growing up on the farm and the wonderful memories you shared with me about my dad, your brother Art. I know you are visiting with all your family now and until we meet again, thanks for the memories. Aunt Jane,Bes,Cal,Barb, Dan & families, my love to all of you.

Cecil and Shirley (Hunziker) Pillard on September 15, 2009 at 12:47 PM said:

So sorry to hear of your loss, although I never met John and just met Dan and Brenda while preparing for Hillary and Jason's wedding. My thoughts are with you all.

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